m not a counselor

bila kita berkawan..'apa yang penting?' kerjasama !-credit to wonderpets- apa yang penting? ukhuwah.-credit to Him-

manisnya sebuah persahabatan, bila kita ikhlas, menyayangi dia dengan sepenuh hati, sanggup ketepikan ego sendiri dan sanggup disakiti even kita tak salah

Trust gets you killed, love gets you hurt and being real gets you hated 

betul, kadang2 we're going to explode when someone did something which is not the way we like it to be until to some extent +lepasni xnak kawan dah+lepasni xnak share makanan dah+lepas ni xnak share apa2 dah+lepas ni lantak la mung nak buat gapo+ and ++++ 

 showing our true colour...can be a strength but somehow a weakness. 

orang kata, memang senang kita nak cakap macam tu je, umpama, air paip yang keluar dari kepala paip, laju je mengalir..tapi bila berlaku kat diri kita sendiri, apa yang kita nak buat? don't just simply say, +biasalahtuh+sabar eh+tenang-tenang+ and ++++

If, it happens, it must be hard, i know..what can i say is TRY

try to ask

try to approach

try to avoid misunderstanding

try to move aside the anger

try to conceive anything to clarify everything

try to ask ourselves-i s it my fault? am i too harsh? am i too outspoken and direct? am i a busybody? etc..

at least someone is trying to brighten up someone's day and enlighten someone else feeling if someone is really trying.. :)


try is more efficient if it comes with spoken word, not typing,(indeed, i did) not peribahasa, not body language, or eye contact or any imaginary expression u've ever had. must be real.

and remember, ukhuwahfillah.

im not trying to meddle into someone's else bussiness, indeed im involved. must do something. im no good (lol) at giving advice and motivate myself and im not at anyone's side, im just being me.i just want it to be like we first met,  we honestly want to be friends. The smile that we radiate to each other, give it back :D

p/s : knowing that everyone have their own way to handle his/her friendship. this is just only a suggestion :) ^^